family function

"eh lul, all of your relatives know me already ahh....oh my this is so convenient if only you're a guy...we can simply get married"

"when you talked about marrying me, is it out of love or comfort?"

"fyi, that kinda question would trigger arguments in a relationship."

"so am i pissing you off now?"

"well, i've known you for 10 years.. definitely there's a lot more to understand about you..it's not easy to understand you. all along these years,there's a progression of understanding you. your new acquaintance won't be able to figure out but i know..because it's all about a matter of time. "

blah blah blah.....in the end she said, "it will definitely be out of love."

quality(emotional independence) over presence/absence